how the fuck do ppl become like painfully socially inept

[ChiraqJihad]

like it seems like youd need to like never socialize with ppl ever but even the weirdest ppl can do a moderate amount of socializing. i guess its genetic even with ppl who dont have autism. like some ppl are just odd

 

[Deleted member 57464]

i cant socialize cuz im ugly

 

[케이제이]

Bc I spent my time studying, rotting and attending all boy high school instead of socializing

 

[apocalypse]

I have it
I probably got abused when I was 2 years old

 

[gigell]

Idk

 

[negawattlol]

trauma, insecurities, lack of attention as a child-lack of attention in general etc...

 

[Tabula Rasa]

i guess its something you learn when you’re young and just build and develop on it with experience. some people never really had the opportunity to learn it or never had the ability to develop it.

 

[Clown Show]

Either being born autistic or negative reinforcement/trauma as a child.

 

[Freixel]

I had traumatic experiences in early adolescence and yet I managed to pull myself together and develop social skills.

Some people are just weak.

In any case, memories of the past haunt you well into adulthood, I would have had a better youth without those bad experiences.